Why do we recoil from breastfeeding?
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
October 28, 2009
Breasts are everywhere these days. They saturate our media in guises both trivial and sombre. Whether grotesquely augmented, stricken with cancer or tumbling unbidden from the frocks of soccer wives, breasts guarantee rapt attention and ongoing debate.
But never are these appendages more hotly debated than when they are being used according to their very purpose and design - that is, for the nourishment of babies.
Although the West's growing technological sophistication is inversely proportional to its tolerance for organic activities such as breastfeeding, negative attitudes are hardly new. History is littered with wet nurses to whom this distasteful activity was outsourced and modern mothers who dispensed with the biological process altogether in favour of Nestle's magical infant formula.
Buoyed by groups such as the World Health Organisation, breastfeeding is creeping back into the public square, but Western newborns still enter a world riven with dissent over their right to a ready meal.
It was refreshing to see the lactating Mexican actress and UNICEF ambassador Salma Hayek instinctively suckle a malnourished Sierra Leonean baby while visiting that country earlier this year. Hayek told reporters it was a compassionate act for a dying child, and that it came naturally to her to reach out to this baby when her own milk supply was plentiful. It was also an attempt to diminish the stigma of breastfeeding.
Not since Rose of Sharon breastfed a dying man in John Steinbeck's The Grapes of Wrath had breasts been used for such a revolutionary act.
The Hollywood sex symbol wasn't just sharing her milk with a stranger's baby, she was doing so under the full public gaze. How could it possibly be, then, that just last month in culturally diverse and thoroughly modern Australia a mother was asked by a flight attendant to conceal her breastfeeding activity from fellow travellers? And that as recently as 2007, the NSW State Government was forced to pass legislation making it illegal to discriminate against women breastfeeding in public?
Opinions on this issue are split between those who believe babies should be allowed to feed wherever they please and detractors who accuse nursing mothers of indecent exposure.
Could this really be happening in the same laissez-faire society where, not long before Kevin Rudd became Prime Minister, he was praised as being ''red-blooded'' for visiting a New York strip club? Where young women flaunt their cleavages on city streets and semi-naked models stare out from the covers of men's magazines in service stations and newsagencies? Where prostitutes advertise in the classified pages of suburban family newspapers?
Or, to put it more bluntly: is female nakedness culturally acceptable only when it is aimed exclusively at the arousal and satisfaction of men?
The reaction from some quarters to the Salma Hayek story seems to reinforce this hypothesis. As a presenter on the American talk show The Young Turks remarked: ''I wanted to be turned on by her breasts, but in that context I just couldn't do it.''
Of course, the reverse is true in traditional societies, where women tend to dress conservatively and the natural function of breasts is well respected. In the many years I breastfed my own children, it never occurred to me that I might offend anyone. The fact that I lived in Africa contributed, no doubt, to the ease with which I was able to conduct this ritual.
In Africa breasts exist primarily as vessels of nourishment rather than as sexual objects. Women breastfeed their children on trains, buses and taxis, in restaurants and on park benches, in church and at work. Mostly they do so discreetly, but it's hardly newsworthy when they don't.
Using these African mamas as role models, I fed my babies on demand, regardless of where we happened to be. The only person to object was a friend's mother, who believed vehemently that breasts were for sex, not babies. As if the two were somehow mutually exclusive.
And herein, perhaps, lies the conundrum facing Australian women, who live in a strangely dichotomous society that tolerates them lying topless on the beach but chokes on its collective latte when they expose their nursing bras. In its typically prurient way, Western culture has co-opted breasts and sexualised them so thoroughly that their basic function is no longer accommodated.
This primordial act, upon which every other mammal relies for survival, has been twisted from its nurturing premise into an act of awful obscenity.
Sadly, society's fixation on the ''perversion'' of public breastfeeding obscures the inordinate benefits that flow from it: breast milk improves infants' health and intellectual outcomes and decreases their carbon footprints; its production results in elevated levels of oxytocin in the nursing mother's brain, contributing to her emotional equilibrium, and decreases her risk of developing ovarian and breast cancer.
Almost a decade into the new century, it's a disgrace that women are still made to feel uncomfortable while using their breasts to nourish their babies. Breastfeeding is neither primitive nor obscene; it is an act of love and generosity, a forward-thinking deposit into society's depleted bank account.
Catherine Marshall is a South African journalist now working in Sydney for Jesuit Communications. This article first appeared in Eureka Street, which can be found at www.eurekastreet.com.au
source: www.theage.com.au
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